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Isikali seTone esiBonisiweyo

Isikali seTone ebonisiweyo kweli phepha ikubonisa amanye amanqanaba etone abalulekileyo oya kuwafumana ebantwini. Isuka kwi tone yemvakalelo yokuthula (imeko ezolileyo, enoxolo esinokulubiza Ulonwabo) phezulu kakhulu Inzondelelo, Isithukuthezi, Intshutshiso, Umsindo, Uloyiko, Usizi kunye Nokungakhathali. Apha ngezantsi umntu unokuba kwi tone yemvakalelo Yokufa koMzimba (wenza ngokungathi ufile okanye akekho zingqondweni).

Ungasebenzisa iSikali seTone yeemvakalelo ukubona inqanaba letone yemvakalelo zabantu ophila nabo kwaye usebenze nabo, kunye naye nabani na onxibelelana naye nangaliphi na ixesha.

Ukwazi ukubona kunye nokwazi ukuba umntu ukweliphi inqanaba letone umntu lowo—nokuba kukwelo nqanaba letone lexesha elincinci okanye okwelo nqanaba letone—kunokukunceda uqikelele ukuba loo mntu uyakuziphatha njani xa unxibelelana naye okanye unxibelelana naye.

Sebenzisa esi sikali ukuze ufunde ukujonga ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuchana inqanaba letone yabantu abakungqongileyo.

ISIKALI SETONE KUNYE NOKUQONDA

Ii tone ze-yeSikali seTone yeeMvakalelo zichanekile. Wonke umntu eMhlabeni ukwindawo ethile kwi-Sikali seTone yeMvakalelo kwaye unyuka uye ezantsi esikalini kulandela eyona ndlela yayo. Abantu njalo behla benyuka okanye behla behlisa ezi tones, enye emva kwenye.

Ii tone zemvakalelo zikwabizwa ngokuba zii tones zomanyano. Umanyano kuthetha ukuthanda okanye ukuthanda, kwaye kusetyenziswa apha njengoluvo lokuba umthanda kangakanani okanye ungamthandi njani umntu okanye into. Ungayibona ngokulula le nto ukuba uthatha umntu okwi-sikali esiphezulu. Umntu okulonwabo unothando olukhulu okanye ukuthanda abanye abantu. Kodwa indoda enomsindo ayinalo uthando olukhulu okanye ukuthanda umntu.

Ukuhamba usuka phezulu ukuya ezantsi kwinqanaba le-Sikali seTone, umntu uhamba ngala manqanaba alandelayo:

  • UKUZOLA
  • INZONDELELO
  • ISITHUKUTHEZI
  • INTSHUTSHISO
  • UMSINDO
  • ULOYIKO
  • USIZI
  • UKUNGAKHATHALI
  • UKUFA KOMZIMBA

Zininzi iindawo zokuma ezincinci phakathi kwezi tones, kodwa nabani na owaziyo nantoni na ngabantu kufuneka azazi ezi mvakalelo.

Xa umntu onokungakhathali ephucula i tone yakhe, uziva elusizi.

Xa umntu onosizi ephucula i tone yakhe, uziva enoloyiko.

Xa umntu onoloyiko aphucula i tone yakhe, uziva enomsindo.

Xa umntu onomsindo aphucula i tone yakhe, uziva intshutshiso.

Xa umntu okwintshutshiso, aphucula i tone yakhe, uye azive enesithukuthezi.

Xa umntu onesithukuthezi aphucula i tone yakhe, uziva enenzondelelo.

Xa umntu onenzondelelo ephucula i tone yakhe, uziva ezolile—okanye enolonwabo.

Abantu banokuba kuyo nayiphi na i tone ngokuqhubekayo kangangexesha elide—usizi, uloyiko, umsindo, intshutshiso, isithukuthezi okanye nokuba yintshisakalo.

Njengoko sine-Sikali seTone egubungela umxholo womanyano, sikwanayo neyonxibelelwano. Kwinqanaba leemvakalelo nganye, sinento yonxibelelwano.

Ngokwemvelo, xa umntu “ebambelele” kuyo nayiphi na imitya ye-Sikali seTone—ukungakhathali, usizi, uloyiko, umsindo, intshutshiso, isithukuthezi, intshisakalo okanye ulonwabo—uvakalisa unxebelelwano ngalo tone yemvakalelo.

Umntu osoloko enomsindo kwinto ethile ubambekile ngumsindo. Umntu onjalo akambi njengomntu ongezantsi kokungakhathali, kodwa usenokuba yingozi ukubanaye kuba uya kwenza ingxaki. Kwaye umntu onomsindo akazilawuli kakuhle izinto. Unxibelelwano lwabantu kula manqanaba ahlukeneyo kwi-Sikali seTone inika umdla kakhulu. Bathetha izinto kwaye baphatha unxibelelwano ngendlela ethile neyaziwayo kwinqanaba ngalinye le-Sikali seTone.

Njengomanyano nonxibelelwano, kukho inqanaba lenyani kwinqanaba ngalinye letone. Inyani inento yokwenza nezinto ezomeleleyo. Ngamanye amagama, ukomelela kwezinto kunye ne tone yeemvakalelo zabantu zinonxibelelwano olucacileyo.

Abantu abaphantsi kwi-Isikali seTone abanako ukunyamezela nantoni na eqinileyo. Abakwazi kuyinyamezela into eyomeleleyo. Into ayisiyonyani kubo. Ibhityile okanye ayinabunzima. Ngokuya besenyuka nge-Sikali seTone, kwalonto inye iya isomelela ngakumbi kwaye banokuyibona ekugqibeleni ukuba yomelele kangakanani. Izinto ziqaqambile kubo okanye zibuthuntu kakhulu, kuxhomekeka kwindawo abakuyo kwi-Sikali seTone.

Ukuba ujonga ngamehlo omntu onomsindo, uyakubona umhlaba “onobungozi” owomeleleyo, apho zonke izinto ezomeleleyo zazibonakala “zisisisongelo sobundlobongela” kuye.

Umntu okwinqanaba lokonwaba kwi-Sikali seTone angabona izinto ezomeleleyo njengokuba zinjalo, eziqaqambileyo njengoko zinjalo kwaye uthanda ukuba nezinto ezomeleleyo ngaye. Ngamanye amagama, njengoko umntu esiya phezulu kwi-Sikali seTone ukusuka kwinqanaba elisezantsi ukuya kwelona liphezulu, izinto zinokomelela ngakumbi nangakumbi kwaye zibeyinyani.

Umanyano lusondele kakhulu ngonxulumano kwisithuba. Ngapha koko, umanyano kunokuchazwa njengombono womgama, kuba abantu abakude kakhulu okanye abasondeleneyo banamanqanaba ohlukeneyo okudibana. Ukuba unomanyano oluninzi nomntu, uyathanda ukwabelana ngendawo yakho naloo mntu. Umntu okulonwabo uyathanda ukuba abantu babelane ngendawo yakhe. Kodwa xa umntu esiya ezantsi kwi-Sikali seTone, ubungakanani bomanyano buyehla kwaye angabinakho ukuba abanye abantu babelane ngendawo yakhe. Thatha, umzekelo, umntu okwinqanaba letone yomsindo. Akafuni mntu kwindawo yakhe.

Inyani, njengoko sele sibonile, inxulumene nezinto ezomeleleyo.

Unxibelelwano lubandakanya ukuhanjiswa kwezimvo okanye amasuntswana phakathi kwezinto ezomeleleyo okanye phakathi kwabantu ababini nangaphezulu.

Umanyano, Inyani, kunye noNxibelelwano zonke zidibana zenze UKUQONDA. Ukuze ube nokuqonda nabani na, kuya kufuneka ubenazo zontathu iinxalenye zawo—Umanyano, iNyani kunye noNxibelelwano. Makhe sibone ukuba isebenza njani le nto xa ujongene nabanye abantu kunye nokusebenzisa i-Sikali seTone.

Umntu onokwenza izinto aphakame kakhulu kumanyano, aphakame kakhulu ngokwenyani kwaye anokwazi kakhulu malunga nonxibelelwano. Aqondakala ngokulula.

Ke ungathetha njani nendoda?

Ukubanako kwakho ukuthetha nomntu kunento yokwenza neemvakalelo zakho ngaye. Wonke umntu uneempendulo ezahlukeneyo zeemvakalelo kubantu abohlukeneyo abakufutshane nabo.

Ukunxibelelana ngempumelelo nomntu, kufuneka uqale ube nomanyano naye. Ukuba akukhathali ngomnye umntu, uya kuba nobunzima obukhulu ukuthetha naye—ngokuqinisekileyo. Indlela yothetha nomntu, ke, iya kuba kukufumana into oyithandayo ngaye kwaye uxoxe ngento anokuthi avumelane nawe ngayo. Oku kukuwa kokunxibelelana okuninzi—umntu akazukuxoxa ngezinto umntu othile anazo naziphi na izinto zesivumelwano.

Lonto sivumelana nayo ihlala iyinyani kunaleyo singavumelani ngayo. Kukho ubudlelwane obucacileyo phakathi kwesivumelwano kunye nenyani. Ezo zinto ziyinyani esivumelanayo ukuba ziyinyani. Ezo zinto aziyonyani esivumelanayo ukuba aziyonyani. Umzekelo, amadoda amabini anokuhlekisa malunga nempahla yendoda yesithathu ekhoyo kwigumbi elinye kwaye unokuva ukuba bathini. Ukuba umntu ove incoko akavumelani nengxoxo malunga nempahla ayinxibileyo, iya kuhla i tone yeemvakalelo zaye ubunyani bunciphe kwaba bantu babini baxoxayo.

Ukuqinisekisa inyani, kufuneka ufumane into enivumelanayo nobabini ngayo. Emva koko uzame ukugcina inqanaba eliphezulu lolomanyano ngokufumana into oyithandayo ngomnye umntu. Uya kutsho ukwazi ukuthetha naye. Ukuba awunawo lamanqaku mabini okuqala (into onokuvumelana ngayo kunye nento oyithandayo ngaye), kuqinisekile ukuba siqinisekile inqaku lesithathu—unxibelelwano—aluzubakho (oko kukuthi, awuzukwazi ukuthetha naye ngokulula).

Umzekelo, ukuba ubuya kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi kwaye uqale ukuxelela umntu lowo okudliwanondlebe malunga neholide yokugqibela onayo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubekho isivumelwano esincinci. Kodwa masithi ufumanisile ukuba wayenephenyane elikhulu kwaye leyo yinto ayithandayo, ungaqala unxibelelwano ngokumxelela ukuba ubukhe wawela ngephenyane kutshanje kwaye uyithandile kakhulu loonto. Kuya kubakho isivumelwano kwangoko phakathi kwenu nobabini.

Ukuba umntu unxibelelana ngokwenyani kwaye unxibelelana kakuhle nabantu—umamela kwinto abayithethayo kwaye ubazisa ukuba bayivile kwaye uyathetha into abaza kuyithetha kubo, ngobumnene kwaye ngokufuthi ngokwaneleyo, ukuze inyani ifunyanwe ngabo—uya kuphinda abenakho ukusebenza kunye nokulungelelanisa iintshukumo zabantu ezazijikeleze kuye.

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