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4.‎1 FUNDA ELI NQAKU

Ukunyaniseka kunye neNkululeko

Ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukuba nenyani kwaye kungabikho nto uyifihlayo. Umntu onyanisekileyo uthetha inyani kwaye akaxoki, akakhohlisi okanye azama ukulahlekisa abanye. Unokuthenjwa.

Emva kokuba ufikelele kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokubanako, uya kuba ngowokuqala ukunyanzela amalungelo akho (amalungelo kunye nenkululeko, njengenkululeko yokuthetha, enikezwe abantu ngokomthetho) ukuba uhlale nabantu abanyanisekileyo.

Kuyimpazamo ukusebenzisa “inkululeko” njengengxoxo yokukhusela abo bantu banokutshabalalisa nje.

Amalungelo abantu adalelwe ukuzisa inkululeko kubantu abanyanisekileyo. Kodwa abantu abanganyanisekanga bahlala bezama ukusebenzisa la malungelo ukuze bagcine izenzo zabo ezilimazayo zifihlakele.

Inkululeko yeyabantu abanyanisekileyo. Indoda enganyanisekanga ayinakukhululeka xa inezinto ezizifihlayo. Xa imisebenzi yakhe ingekaziwa, ke ulibanjwa kuye. Uziva ngathi kufuneka azibambe kwabanye abantu kuba esoyika ukuba uzakubakhathaza kwakhona. Xa ukhusela abantu abanganyanisekanga, ubanyanzela ukuba baphile ubomi bokubandezeleka kunye nesizungu.

Inye kuphela indlela e out yomntu onganyanisekanga kwaye leyo kuye kukuba ajongane noxanduva lwakhe eluntwini kwaye azibuyisele kunxibelelwano nabanye abantu, usapho kunye nehlabathi.

Inkululeko yoMntu ayithethi inkululeko yokulimaza Abantu. Inkululeko yokuthetha ayithethi inkululeko yokwenzakalisa ngobuxoki.

Umntu akanakukhululeka ngelixa kukho abo bamjikelezileyo abanezinto abazifihlileyo ngezenzo zabo ezilimazayo.

Ukukhululeka, umntu kufuneka anyaniseke kuye nakubantu ahlala nabo kunye nasebenza nabo.

Qaphela: Ukuze uqhubeke, kufuneka ugcwalise onke amanyathelo angaphambili kule khosi. Inyathelo lakho lokugqibela elingaphelelanga ngu
QAPHELA: Uneempendulo ezininzi ebezingachanekanga. Ukuze uqhubeke, kuya kufuneka ufunde kwakhona inqaku Kwaye uvavanye ukuqonda kwakho kwakhona.