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4.‎1 FUNDA LENDATSHANA

Ukwethembana Nenkululeko

Ukwethembeka kusho ukuba neqiniso futhi ungabi nanto yokufihla. Umuntu othembekile ukhuluma iqiniso futhi akaqambi amanga, akhohlise noma azame ukudukisa abanye. Angathenjwa.

Ngemuva kokuthi usufinyelele ezingeni eliphakeme lekhono, uzoba owokuqala wokugcizelela emalungelweni akho (amalungelo nenkululeko, njengenkululeko yokukhuluma, enikezwe abantu ngomthetho) ukuze uhlale nabantu abathembekile.

Kuyiphutha ukusebenzisa “inkululeko” njengempikiswano ukuvikela labo bantu abangabhubhisa nje.

Amalungelo ngamanye adalelwa ukuletha inkululeko kubantu abathembekile. Kepha abantu abangathembekile bavame ukuzama ukusebenzisa la malungelo ukuze nje bavikele izenzo zabo eziyingozi.

Inkululeko ingeyabantu abathembekile. Indoda engathembekile ayikwazi ukukhululeka uma inezinto ezifihlayo. Lapho imisebenzi yakhe ingembulwa, usuke eyisiboshwa kuye. Uzizwa ukuthi kufanele azigodle kwabanye abantu ngoba wesaba ukuthi uzobalimaza futhi. Lapho uvikela abantu abangathembekile, ubaphoqa ukuthi baphile impilo yokuhlupheka nesizungu.

Kunendlela eyodwa kuphela yokuphuma komuntu ongathembekile futhi lokho ukuthi abhekane nokufika emithwalweni yakhe emphakathini futhi azibuyisele ekuxhumaneni nomuntu akanye naye, umndeni wakhe kanye nomhlaba.

Inkululeko yoMuntu ayisho inkululeko yokulimaza uMuntu. Inkululeko yokukhuluma ayisho inkululeko yokulimaza ngamanga.

Umuntu akakwazi ukukhululeka ngenkathi kukhona labo abaseduze kwakhe abanezinto zokufihla ngezenzo zabo ezilimazayo.

Ukuze ukhululeke, indoda kufanele ithembeke kuye uqobo kanye nakubantu ahlala nabo futhi isebenze nabo.

QAPHELA: Ukuze uqhubeke, kufanele uqedele zonke izinyathelo zangaphambilini kule isifundo. Isinyathelo sakho sokugcina esingaphelele ngu
QAPHELA: Unezimpendulo eziningana ebezingalungile. Ukuze uqhubeke, kufanele uphinde ufunde indatshana bese uhlola ukuqonda kwakho futhi.