Ngokwesiqhelo sisimo apho umntu enokonyuka ngokuthe rhoqo okanye ngokuthe ngcembe kunye nokuphucula kwimveliso okanye kwingeniso yakhe. Oku kusebenza kuzo zonke iinxalenye zobomi bomntu. Ukuba ulwalamano lomntu nosapho lwakhe okanye abantu asebenza nabo bahlala bebangcono kwaye bebangcono, kunokutshiwo ukuba ukwi Imeko Eqhelekileyo kusapho lwakhe okanye kubantu asebenza nabo.

Ifomyula Eqhelekileyo

Umntu usebenzisa iFomyula Eqhelekileyo xa:

• Ubomi bakhe buhamba rhoqo okanye ukwanda ngokuthe chu.
• Uye wayigqiba iFomyula Engxamisekileyo kwaye wanyukela kwi-Imeko eqhekileyo.

Ifomyula Eqhelekileyo yi:

1. Sukutshintsha kwanto. Indlela ogcina ulonyuso ngayo kukungatshintshi nantoni na.

2. Ukuziphatha kunobulali.

   Kwi-Imeko Eqhelekileyo, ulilungu elinemveliso kunye negalelo kwinkampani yakho, kwiqela lakho okanye kusapho lwakho. Kucingelwa ngabo ukuba awufuni ukuba abanye bohlwaye.

3. Ngalo lonke ixesha xa usanda endaweni yobomi bakho, yijonge ngononophelo kwaye ufumanise ukuba yenziwengcono yintoni na. Kwaye ke yenza loo nto ngaphandle kokuyeka (ukumisa into obukade uyenza) oko ubukwenza ngaphambili. Zizo kuphela ezotshintsho ozenzayo.

4. Ngalo lonke ixesha enye indawo yobomi bakho iba mbi kancinci, ngokukhawuleza fumana phandle kutheni kwaye uyilungise.

Kwaye uya nje kwaye ubuye, ulungelelanise naluphi na ulwandiso kunye naluphi na unciphiso. Naphi na apho into iye isiba mbi, uya kufumanisa ukuba kukho utshintsho olwenziwe kuloo ndawo kwaye uluphatha ngcono ngokukhawuleza olo tshintsho. Kwaye xa ufumana nantoni na ebangcono, ngcono ufumanise phandle ukuba uyenza njani ngcono kwaye uyayiqinisa (yomeleza okanye uyonyusa) njani.

Thatha umzekelo ugqirha wezilwanyana (umntu oqeqeshiweyo okhathalela izilwanyana ezigulayo okanye ezenzakeleyo). Ukuziqhelanisa kwakhe nonyango lwezilwanyana kukwi Imeko Eqhelekileyo. Nangona evule nje iinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambilana, izilwanyana ezininzi ziziswa kuye ngamalungu oluntu. Ingeniso yakhe inyukile kwaye izilwanyana azikhathaleleyo ziqhuba kakuhle kakhulu.

Inyathelo lokuqala alenzayo kukungatshintshi nto. Ugcina kuzo zonke iintshukumo zentengiso azenzayo, kwaye oku kubandakanya ukubamba isemina yasimahla evekini kwimpilo yezilwanyana. Wayesandula kuqesha abaqeshwa bakhe bokuqala wabeka umnxeba kwinkonzo yexesha elingxamisekileyo, edume kakhulu. Akazitshintshi ezi ntshukumo.

Ulandela yonke imithetho yokuqhuba isenzo kwaye ukhathalela sonke isilwanyana asibonayo. Ayifuni ingqeqesho kwabanye. Ke Ukuziphatha kunobulali.

Okulandelayo kufuneka alandele inyathelo 3: “Ngalo lonke ixesha xa usanda kwindawo yakho, yijonge ngononophelo kwaye ufumanise ukuba ingcono ngantoni. Kwaye ke yenza loo nto ngaphandle kokuyekisa oko ubuwenza ngaphambili. Zizo kuphela ezotshintsho ozenzayo.” Ujonga okwenze ulonyuso mva nje kwaye ufumanise ukuba ubuphucule ubuchule bakhe emva kokufunda ngokuhlwa. Uqhubeka neklasi yeveki, ngaphandle kokuyeka ezinye izenzo.

Okokugqibela, ugqirha wezilwanyana uthi kukho indawo enye yokuziqhelanisa ephantsi kwi graph yakhe—inani lokudluliselwa kwabathengi (abanikazi bezilwanyana abanelisekileyo baxelele abahlobo ukuba beze nezilwanyana zabo kuye). Ngelixa olunye ulonyuso luphumelela, abantu abambalwa baxelela abahlobo babo ngaye.

Usebenzisa inyathelo 4: “Ngalo lonke ixesha indawo yakho iba mbi kancinci, ngokukhawuleza ufumana phandle kutheni kwaye uyilungise.” Ufumanise phandle ukuba uyekile ukunika umnini-silwanyana ngamnye oza kumbona ngezinto zentengiso zasimahla kubahlobo babo. Ngokukhawuleza ubuyisela isenzo kwaye ngaphakathi kwaye ukuthumela kuya phezulu.

Uyigcwalisa ngempumelelo iFomyula Eqhelekileyo yeziko lakhe lwezilwanyana.